July 27, 2022
The Four Pillars of Successful International Negotiations: Best Practices
When it comes to negotiation, there is a divide between what the experts claim is universally applicable ‘best practice’ and the current realities of our world. The world has radically changed but the general frameworks and theories related to negotiating have not changed much at all.
In this article, we will try to bridge the divide and show how you can become a culturally agile negotiator no matter who is on the other side of the table.
But before we dive into the 4 pillars of intercultural negotiation, let’s first have a look at how much our world has changed.
A summary of Global trends:
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Close to 300 million people live outside the country of their passport.
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More than 220 million people are classified as Third Culture Kids (TCKs): people born into a multi-cultural family being raised in another country.
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We also have over 300 million Cross Cultural Kids (CCKs); people whose parents hold the same passport but who were raised in another culture.
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And let’s not forget one other significant trend: Of the 3.4 billion employees worldwide, about 1.3 billion connect inter-culturally on a regular basis through their work.
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Complex Problem Solving
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Critical Thinking
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Negotiation
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Creativity
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People Management
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Coordinating with Others
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Emotional Intelligence
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Judgement and Decision Making
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Service Orientation
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Cognitive Flexibility
I hope the above quick summary of global trends shows why taking your negotiation to the next level and becoming Culturally Agile in your negotiation is so important.
Pillar 1: Regular good best practice negotiation
Many negotiation techniques that are presented as ‘universally applicable’, require careful adjustments to the local or inter-cultural context of the negotiation. Other negotiation frameworks might be more universally helpful or applicable (e.g., BATNA or win-win or building ‘if-then’ scenarios).
Some experts like Thomas Kilmann have identified negotiation styles: Competing, avoiding, accommodating, compromising, and collaborating.
The biggest problem with a lot of these theories is not their usefulness but their application. People who write about these methods or styles seem to believe that the ‘how’ and ‘what’ of application is also universally applicable. They assume that an ‘accommodating negotiation style’ will look the same no matter who is on the other end of the negotiation table; nothing could be further from the truth. If you want to negotiate in a diverse and interculturally complex world you need to stop assuming that the ‘hows’ and ‘whats’ are universally applicable.
Thus, cultural agility becomes incredibly important. Knowing a method is one thing, but knowing how to apply that method within a complex intercultural context is an art that requires you to up your game. At the same time, there are practical things that will always hold true no matter who you negotiate with. The elements of negotiation below assume that you want to develop a long-term relationship with the other party
Putting Relationship before the transaction.
In negotiating conflict, contracts, and complex relationships, don’t forget that people remember the positive and negative experiences they have had with you. This morning I reconnected with a person who currently holds a regional SVP role and was part of an Executive MBA program where I facilitated 15 years ago. He is requesting assistance in a complex intercultural challenge his business is now facing.
Research from Microsoft shows that the ‘human connect’ part of virtual meetings has diminished because of the Covid crisis; we have become more transactional. If you are tempted to be the same, don’t give in, be counterintuitive, and invest in the relationship. It will pay off in the long run.
Prepare, prepare, prepare
Most of the ‘negotiation’ work is typically not done at the negotiation table, but in preparation beforehand. Here are a few important disciplines that we believe to be universally applicable:
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Do your homework. The key homework should center around the stakeholders who you might end up working with after an agreement is reached. Knowing all the key stakeholders beyond the negotiation table will inform how to structure the relationship so that it will be beneficial for both entities and will positively impact your brand equity and reputation. Sometimes the informal stakeholders might be more important than the formal stakeholders. This is especially true if you are dealing with a family-owned business. The family dynamics might be such that a 1st generation family member has the final word when the family comes together behind closed doors.
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Do your risk analysis upfront. What are the key stakeholders known for? Is the reputation of the other party a good match for the reputation you have built? Is a future relationship with the other party something you want to ‘be known for’? We have walked away from clients multiple times even if it was a lucrative contract. Reputation is built over many years and one bad relationship can tarnish it for years to come.
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Align on the way you do things. It is also crucial to assess if there is alignment between the way you do business and the way the other party does business. We take it one step further and try to assess up front if the future client is willing to work with us to establish a culture around the project that will make the project successful. We recently lost a contract because the client wanted to hire us to do some significant culture change work. But they were shocked by our approach because in their minds they just wanted to write some nice press releases about the project with very little true change. We presented a proposal to them that required them to be involved, required the president of the company to become the champion and face of the project and work with our team to operationalize the change. In hindsight, we were happy they declined because we knew the project would have been a major failure and bad for our reputation.
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Know what could go wrong before you start. Try to work out as many different scenarios as possible and set up a financial simulation for larger negotiations so that you have calculated in advance the impact of unpredictable twists and turns in the negotiation. One way to prepare better is to do what we call a ‘pre-mortem’; come up with as many reasons as possible why this project might go horribly wrong or not work out. Don’t leave a stone unturned and when you have mapped out your pre-mortem, make allowances for the possible negative outcomes.
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Get to know the people involved. Make sure you know everything there is to know about the people on the other end of the table. I was recently at a meeting, and I had watched several online videos of the founder of the company who was not present at this meeting. At one point in the meeting, I said, “This is a great idea, since the founder is a one-track-mind-guy, how do you think he will respond to this?” A simple question that unlocked an honest conversation about how likely it was that different ideas might be approved by the founder.
In the next article, we will explore the next 3 pillars of international negotiation. While this first pillar explored the best practices around international negotiation, the next three are each primarily about ‘Knowing Yourself’ so that you can apply them to better understand the other party.
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